Thursday, March 31, 2011

Psychology of a persecutor

Most cases of cyberstalking are post-breakup situations. Abandoned girl can not come to terms with separation and starts at any price to fight for her affection. In fact, however, it is not about love but about the fact of being abandoned. People who have a tendency to to be a stalker is usually a person who survived a serious abandonment of earlier (first love, or abandonment of the family - the father or mother). Therefore, they need membership at any price, and the subsequent rejection of them is unbearable. Some stalkers begin to harass the victim despite the absence of any relationships connecting them (as was the case with Sarah's murder by the persecutor Kotlarska-miss Polish). Their victim, or reminds them of the person who abandoned them, or at the time of "falling in love" feeling great agitation, which wrongly interpret as love. Persecutors are more women than men. One thing is certain - these are people who at the time of the harassment are not balanced emotionally.

What to do if you have a cyberstalker? Above all, keep all emails and messages on the communicator - can be the necessary proof, if you choose to report the matter to the police. If you syspect that you have a cyberstalker, visit StalkInfo.com. Besides, do not react. Do not post it on the news, even if you are very nervous. For your persecutors even respond to this e-mail every 30 is maintaining contact with you. It does not matter what you write and write. It is important that you write.

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